Take responsibility for your life. Acknowledge that you are the captain of your destiny and you made the choices that have brought you to where you are today.
Yes, good and bad things happen to all of us. And they shape us in ways we could only have previously imagined. But what we decide to do after experiencing those circumstances is entirely up to us.
Acknowledge that you haven't always made the right decisions, but acknowledge that those decisions were yours to make. Don't blame mama, daddy, brother, friend or sister. Put the blame - and responsibility - right where it belongs - ON YOU. By taking responsibility for your own actions, you are also taking back your own power. By making your own decisions from now on (and not blaming others), you have regained the ability to control your own life, line up with your own destiny and affect those around you in positive ways.
Take responsibility for your own actions today and TAKE BACK YOUR POWER!